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Single in the City








My thoughts from my dating experiences, family, food, health and Money


5 places you want to visit
Goals this year: 1. New orleans again 2. Las vegas 3. Miami 4. New york 5. Some place with gorgeous water or a cruise .


my pet peeves
1.lying 2. Inconsistency 3. Un controllable anger.


How i managed to suck at adulting
Not having a car is no big deal when you work at home and dont have to deal with it until you actually need a car . After saying forget...


Another update
Getting ready for the holidays and having the kids here has been a whirlwind lol . So update on life : Found out my job is ending january...


30 layers 30 days : use me
I am wondering if I have a stamp across my forehead that says use me ? Sometimes I sit back and wonder what exactly is the effort for ...


30 layers in 30 days : moonlight
Merry christmas !!! I woke up at 3 am looked off my patio and breathed in some good texas air . I looked off into the moonlight and...


30 layers 30 days : secret strength
Negative balance No car No tree for Christmas No presents I'm not falling apart nor am I losing sleep over it . Honestly things happen...


30 layers 30 days: a magic morning
Honestly Truly I'm grateful for the morning I plan on making breakfast for my kids Cleaning up Vibing with the kids Laying in my kids get...


30 layers 30 days : it's complicated
Why is this so complicated ? Why is it always rushed?. What's so hard about meeting someone liking them vibing getting to know . Plan to...


30 layers 30 days : the unexpected
When you think you are dating someone and they do a total 180 from dating you trying to just have sex with you . But I'm over thinking...
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