Single in the city : wrap up of dating in the last 30 days and lessons learned

Ok last 30 days has been such a research phase for me I know what I'm looking for ,what I just can't succumb to and how to leave those men behind. I've had a few that want to try to have a situationship which from my thing I had with Mr .  BIG it just can't happen again honest truly 

So I'm finding myself tossing those men back to the dating pool , and moving forward realizing I can't change their minds and it will end badly for me . another types that are coming in my mix the aggressive types you know the guys that want to come to your house the first time they meet you , force you to kiss them on the first date not because you want to but because they just have to kiss you , and the forcing you to just fit their mold of what they feel dating should be . FYI these guys are also getting tossed back in the dating pool . sounds like a lot of tossing Oh they are getting caught believe that I'm just making sure they are the right choice before I take them home for dinner 😉