Single in the city : the womanizer

Rewind 15 years ago I was a freshman in high school with a crush on the guy that played on the football team. I was not popular or even worthy of a glance to be honest lol but for 3 years we both snuck around and held hands and stolen kisses the moment it all ended was his senior year a couple of years later when he decided not to go to prom with me lol. Those were serious times when you are 16 or 17 years old he graduated high school and went on to college I stayed back in my small town going on with life until I met my children's father 5 years go by and I come home for my grandmother's funeral . I see him again and we catch up and spent the rest of the weekend together we kept in touch afterwards and anytime I ever came home we would always spend time together. A year ago when I moved back to Texas we managed to go out for lunch and catch up and talked about life our kids since he had 3 new kids since the last time we saw each other , we also talked about the fact of us never being in anything committed he had to go out of town for Football. When he came back it was another weekend alone talking and intimacy I was on cloud nine got my crush looks like we were gonna give it a try and a week later he approached me with a threesome. He didn't want a wife he wanted a woman that was ok if he stepped out and be with other woman. I found out also that he was still in a relationship with his children's mother and was living with her. Now I'm going to be very honest here I realized what I was dealing with and I knew what he was I stopped all communication with him at this point and told him that he could come back when he was 100 percent single . He came back to me 5 months later not single but for my help . this time he tells me he's in a bind and needed me to help him fix something ok no biggie we were always friends ,he asked me to help the mess he made with his child's mother ok again no biggie them he dropped a bombshell that he cheated on her with another woman and got her pregnant and he needed help with getting her straight 😒😒😒😒 . i should have said no but I said yes and fixed his circumstances to the best of my ability . 3 months go by again he pops up same scenario different girl but he failed to mention to her about his new baby mother and the fact that he was still living with the other so here I had on my doorstep again a man wanting me to fix his screw up I managed (which still baffles me to this day ) to fix it again . all was well we chatted again few times here and there again d he looked at me strangely one day again did told me I was the only person that understood him . maybe I am or maybe I'm not but I know for a fact I in a way felt sorry for him . sorry that he seemed comfort differently in several women at once me including that he didn't see in himself what everyone else saw . the final straw was and night he claimed he wanted to see me and that he wanted something with me I invited him over and he spent about 5 minutes confessing his love for someone else my feelings weren't hurt I was tired of hearing this vicious cycle of his womanizing ways and his woe is me antics when all of this madness was at his hands . no sense in wasting time .