Single in the city : this is why you are single vs why I am really single

THIS IS WHY YOU ARE SINGLE !!!!

The words he screamed at me before hanging the phone up in my face .

I know I know another guy that hangs up the phone and not discussing whatever the issue is like a adult .

Look I know why I am single some of my reasons are good some are ridiculous I'm still working on the the ridiculous stuff but here goes.

-I over analyze everything 

-I ask questions which can annoy men I honestly like clarity 

-I can be charming which thus causes men to want to move quickly with me .

-moving fast scares the crap out of me 

-some guys want to go with the flow I'm just not that kind of girl with strangers it's weird to me 

-I'm trusting my intuition a lot more now which unfortunately for some men I won't let them have sex with me 

-I have morals/standards I just can't sleep with every guy that I have a great first date with I just can't 

-im in 1950s courting mindset in 2016 please ring my doorbell and bring me flowers take your time and at some point I'll swing on a chandelier just for you . 

-my expectations aren't crazy high but are considered crazy high for 2016 (have a job,a car , and your own place I don't care where you work or the car just have your own)

-when I get rubbed the wrong way during first encounters I vanish. (If you yell,berate me,act like a psycho , tell me something that sounds super fishy vroom I'm gone)

Now that's a lot of reasons some are ridiculous and I need to calm the hell down from others I could/should continue sticking my guns on. I went on a movie date with a guy within 24 hours told me he wanted me to be his girlfriend and not date anyone else ( weird dudes scare me add that to the list of other reasons why I am single) . this scared the crap out of me as usual . he was nice and a gentleman and discussed church when it got to me mentioning my friends who were gay he had an entire issue with it ( he went in preaching mode on our first date ) I'm turned off FYI if you haven't grasped that part. When he brought me back home the conversation changed to him wanting to take me upstairs and make passionate love to me since I was such a good woman ( that's not very Christian like I'm not sure about the bible quote but I'm sure we are not supposed to be sexing each other lol) . I'm intrigued with folks that attempt to force  religion down someone's throat especially when they are not practicing it themselves . who are you to condemn someone to hell and you are out sleeping with woman and none are your wife but whatever what do I know who am I ? nobody just the jezebel that likes her reality shows ,red lipstick ,and  wine . the thing that was crazy to me was he wanted to keep talking on the phone with me like he didn't condemn my friends tell me how a woman should behave and then scream at me he knows why I am still single . no thanks Mr Christian I'm ok with being "still single" if that means I am dodging closed minded men . I can't date someone that thinks like that when he's questioning if they are being functioning adults in society when they most definitely are with careers, adopted children, fabulous homes and cars and loving their dreams . meanwhile Mr christian is condemning my friends and working a dead end job living with his aunt and borrowing her car to pick me up on my date . so thanks but no thanks I'll stay single until then ✌.