Single in the city: the chase

It feels nice to date someone and the entire event is effortless , he's reaching out , he's following through with dates , he doesn't disappear on days on end and then shows up like he wasn't MIA for days or weeks, he's chasing you but not so much you are uncomfortable . feels nice right ? I've never had it all for a continuous basis to keep me interested it's always just one or a few but lately I've had something I've never had before a chaser. he's chasing hard like attempting to set up dates back to back no days between and squeezing in when I'm not working with time with him. As much as a girl loves to be pursued she also likes to breathe .

I'm trying to do better with listening to Warning signs for someone that has a tendency to be abusive/controlling . A guy that wants to move too fast ,talks you into a relationship and tells you things about him not getting any older and that he doesn't have kids and you just met him is usually a pretty fair sign on what the future entails. First move at your own comfortable pace if it's meant to be it will be . Second, you just met him  how is this your fault he hasn't had a wife or kids ? granted he may have down the right thing and take his time but this usually not the case for a guy rushing you into things .  Just be careful stand your ground and leave this guy alone .