Single in the city: the big ,move 2 date nights , sexing yourself into a relationship

Started 7 am Friday morning got the uhual picked up at 8 movers came at 9 and we're done by 11 I won't have Internet until Monday since the company messed up my paper work I got one month of service free for the inconvenience . I have boxes everywhere and I could care less I'm feeling so much stress off my shoulders and can't wait on get some things unboxed.

I took myself out Thursday night of go see the Tyler Perry movie and was able to have 2 blue cheese martinis with no interruption all and all another great date night :)

Also had two men approach me this week which is so off to me when I'm not looking all of a sudden men fall from the sky i am really not putting myself out there for anything to be honest but yet these two found something about me that intrigued them .

First guy we chatted for about an hour until he told me he wanted a FRIEND'S with benefits that led to a relationship I'm sorry it just doesn't work like that. I've had this and it did not end well I didn't know anything about him and sex was the full force lead into our relationship so I never called him back .

Second guy same situation but he wanted to just jump into a relationship like today ,right now wants a wife within the next 3 years 😟 that is a lot of pressure to put on someone you have known for 24 hours. 2nd day he asked me how I felt about him ( I have a feeling he may have read Steve Harvey's act like a lady think like a man ) I honestly do not know him enough to respond to it 😒😒😒 . i think I'm becoming cynical about dating I'm not bitter and I know not all men are the same I think this is the experience as a whole . I need a dating vacation .