Single in the city: full pull up big girl panties mode .

Sometimes if you want something done you just honestly should do it yourself . I keep trying to go back and wonder why he bought the flowers why did he come back around . I'm also wondering why he continues to lie to me and why am I even allowing this simple ass dude free rent inside my head ? He made two annoying ass mistakes but I'm partial to blame for this he last minute set up a date didn't ask me if I had plans and assumed I was their for his Beck and call and I allowed it . Then he did it again and I allowed it again . Mind you this man canceled 3 dates in a row and had yet to make that up and stated he didn't need to and he would fix it when he felt like it . (Red flag flapping) . I woke up I'm shaking him this is annoying and I have cut men off for doing much less ,for his hail Mary pass I'm assuming to keep his claws in me he tells me that he would chip in for my move . I move Friday and it is Wednesday and everything was supposed to be done on Friday.  Hmmm so when I talked with him last night he was avoiding the conversation and said he needed to look at his finances ,mind you he went out to a bar the previous night  and drunk himself silly but I'm sure he didn't have to check finances then but I digress . So I have a few days for my move the house is all boxed up and ready to go so I just went ahead and boxed the last few items and booked my own damn movers . 48 hours to a stress free new chapter .