Single in the city: dumb things I've done for love

4 years I was natural no relaxer no presses and I got my hair to a pretty great state and I learned exactly how to take care of it . Imagine going 25 years with a relaxer and you just stopped I was pretty proud of myself and then I met my last ex he was from Georgia and felt like black women hair should be laid and pressed for the God's and honestly didn't like my hair natural at all . He complained for a year until I gave in for him not for me and relaxed it .

2 years ago below: 

^ let me tell you something about that chick .

She hated her hair relaxed , she was depressed like hell and gained Hella weight, she had zits first time since she was 17 years old I reckon it had to do with all the stress .she also got screamed at about something so dumb I can't even recall what it was about . Funny how a smile can cover so much pain huh?

Today:

Let me tell you something about her ^ she wears her hair how she wants and only dates guys that's not really concerned with how my hair is and more concerned if I'm a great person or not . She's lost some weight not all but she's happy with her body that's for sure.  Clear face and my smile is because everything is OK and she's got more reasons to smile these days .

Do things for you .

Smile not to cover up pain but because it's life .

Anything that doesn't keep a smile on your face needs to go ASAP no sense in investing in early botox because you have a killjoy in your life .Anything that doesn't keep a smile on your face needs to go ASAP no since in investing in early botox because you have a killjoy in your life .Anything that doesn't keep a smile on your face needs to go ASAP no since in investing in early botox because you have a killjoy in your life .Anything that doesn't keep a smile on your face needs to go ASAP no since in investing in early botox because you have a killjoy in your life .