Single in the city: You demand too much , you expect way too much from me.

Now some folks will be single by choice

And others will be single because they honestly will have unrealistic expectations from their companion.

I have two scenarios and you can be the judge on if the demand is Way too high .

Scenario 1 : a situationship that lasts 5 years they date ,are intimate the moment she asks for exclusive dating he hands up states no she walks away and he gets in a relationship this happens a total of two times during the 5 year time span . He appears again and he is creeping to the intimacy pool again she states that she is looking to date with a purpose his reply :

Why did you mess up what we had? You are demanding too much from me this is why you were never my girlfriend .

2 things if you know what you want especially with dating do not be afraid to state that early on (not first date of course lol ) but some point it should be discussed before you are intimate . The other thing is never let anyone make your reasonable thoughts out to be demands because they simply do not want to do it . This isn't a demand this is a want, a need ,a own self satisfaction .

Scenario 2: he honestly doesn't have time for you . There are way too many balls he's juggling in his life but whatever reason he wants you along for the ride and to deal with it . When you bring this too his attention his response :

You are damned if you do damned if you don't.  I just can't win with you , you want this perfect guy and your demands are too high .

2 things ( seems to be my number of the night lol ) you want someone busy but not so busy they are canceling dates 3 nights in a row at the very last minute . The other thing that's not a high demand that's honestly common sense who wants to date someone they never see and who wants to be made to feel bad about seeing someone once a week ? 

Definition of demand : 

Honestly if you are trying to date someone no one is trying to have the right to be seen that's a given and also not wanting to sleep with everyone that's honestly a choice so not wanting to just sleep with you shouldn't be considered a demand .