Single in the city: The neighbor **updated **

Sometimes I forget that you can actually date people and meet them in real life this is what online dating does to people lol. So every morning and every evening I walk my dogs around my complex this morning in particular I just honestly wasn't concerned too much about. My appearance and knew it would be a quick trip outdoors and I'd be by the house . As I'm standing waiting for one of the dogs to finish her business this guy pulls up next to me . He's talking low and anyone that knows know my hearing is awful poor guy made him repeat himself at least 3 times . Basically he said his name ,stated he say me walk my dogs every morning thought I was very beautiful (thought he was nuts at this point ) and if he could get my number to get to know one another better .I paused and looked at him and gave it to him .( Now this was 6 months ago) later on when I got off from work in the evening we got a chance to talk he asked lots of things about me when it got to me .finding out about him he was very mysterious and not in the good way . Apparently the car he was driving was the lady that he was living with who was his "ex girlfriend" he explained why the relationship was bad I stated he needed to leave me back and come back when he had his own place and vehicle . So 3 moths layer he appears again this time with a car I'm still a hot mess he calls.me beautiful again and stated he had some things he needed to discuss with me about his life I assumed since the last time I spoke to him I made it very clear my intentions and I told him it was fine for him to speak to me again . Upon speaking to him he was still living with her and the only thing that has changed was the fact that he had his own car but they were living together and she was in a relationship and stated if I didn't believe him I could come meet her . Um yea no thanks and no thanks to all of it . So I stepped back again and made it clear he was a very nice.man but his life is all over and he needs to get that right and then he can step to me again and if he does it'll have to be right and would be the last shot . A few days before I went on my new orleans trip he popped up again this time stating he was moving out and had a place he was waiting on to get ready with his cousin they are supposed to move in on June 12th or the 18th I'm not sure to be honest . He's also stated his ex has threatened to have him jumped but he still continues to stay there . You already know that I'm back peddling now . To watch his next move .

So one month later he's still living with his ex . He hit.me up.basically trying to deter the conversation around the fact that he was living with his ex and then went on to say he was going to start apartment hunting today I nicely told him I was sorry to hear he still didn't have a place and that I wished him the best and I was going to go on with my life .