Single in the city: my Mr big part 5 the finale

This will be the final chapter of installments on Mr big and it's bitter sweet over the last year this has been one of my most toxic dating experiences I have had in a very long time .

Mr big was nice when he wanted something, attempted to control the situation especially in my own personal dating life but over the course of the last 3 to 4 months things have totally changed we went from daily phone calls to none at all. We went from dates and outings to short visits to each other's Apartments on a whim all this came to just about absolute halt back in August I got a collect call from him he said he had been drinking and drive home and got stopped and was now in jail. So I jumped up started calling bonds man and made sure to get him out before dark. Crazy thing this was actually the moment I noticed some slippage Mr big always left a key under the mat for me when he wanted me to come over when he wasn't home or if he was sleep . I had to come to his home To grab his money for bail but the key was under the mat and I knew for a fake I wasn't visiting him. At a later time I asked about the key and he said it was for his cousins. Later finding out this was a total lie .

More balls dropped : he invited me over and I slept there until he left for work the next day I grabbed my shoes and when I picked up one from under the bed there were women's clothing under the bed and a wig in the closet. I shook my head and left also didn't mention it the last thing going was actually snap chat . He posted vodka and captioned my baby's drink . So when I got around to speaking to him that week I asked him was he in a relationship he flipped out turned it around to me and unbeknownst to me blocked me on snap chat lol. Fast forward a few weeks later I'm up grabbing a drink of water and grab my phone someone sends me a message on Instagram basically no pics and no profile pic. She or he was warning me about Mr big and sent me the profile link for a young ladies Instagram. I look through her profile and she had postings of gifts he bought her And Her at a wedding in a video with his mother captioned my mother in law. I reached out to her and we spoke exchanged stories and also finding out he was in a relationship with her for 3 years . Sad sad sad. I sent her screenshots and recorded conversations of us and spoke with him after he still denied still lied. Called me stupid and denied that he was with her like that.

I'm glad this is over I'm so thankful that this happened and I can honestly move forward and have my heart 100 % available for someone worthy,kind,and special