Single in the city : Mr big easy part 3

We talked up until mid June when he dropped off the face of the planet . He finally re surfaced a week later to have some sheepish/sorry excuse on why he disappeared then for the few weeks we talked he was so inconsistent on what he wanted he just made my head spin. Meaning he'd go from a guy wanting to be single to a guy wanting to be married (mind you he was still married and had no idea where his estranged wife ran off too) then a guy wanting a kid of his own to then a guy not wanting a kid at all. It got confusing trying to figure out what he wanted he grew tiresome of the fact that I didn't come back to new Orleans because I had trouble at home and matters that needed to be cared for . He reached out early September I'm assuming to give me an ultimatum be with him or else so to say . I reiterated that I wasn't moving to another state for a guy and today he posted he was in a relationship on Facebook. And that's how the cookie crumbles .