Single in the city: Mr Big Easy part 2

So I went to New orleans back at the end of May and I am still talking with him just about every night for a few hours on end . I have honestly really enjoyed getting to know him and taking out the fact of the sex hes seems to be a pretty cool ,decent, and sorta goofy kind of guy . kinda threw me for a loop this week when he expressed he would like to date me ,and has requested numerous times to come out and visit him again to actually go on a real date like normal people who just so happen by 5 hours away . something else that threw me for a loop is his request to have me move to new orleans . I had to beak it to him that I would only move to another state again for a job or my kids not a guy . I made that mistake before and I am just not going down that road again . But you never know he might be the way would suck that 1 year into dating i find a great guy on vacation in another state lol .