Single in the city : Mr international

Met online on tinder he asked me out for drinks and set up the time once we met he shook my hand and I laughed and hugged him after we settled down drinks were ordered we talked about where he grew up (parents of Nigerian descent he grew up in the Czech Republic ) he had a degree in business and a Masters in finance and works as a finance manager for a local restaurant chain spoke 5 languages and was very well travel we talked about his travel stories his family and what brought him to the states . This chat and quick witty banter went on for about two hours before he decided to ask me have I ever eaten Nigerian food and I said no and he was shocked and surprised at the fact that as an African-American woman I've never had a chance to eat Nigerian food or any African food for that matter you live in Houston and there a lot of restaurants he said and then I tried to explain to him how I just moved back this past August and I haven't had a chance to do so and so he's like well I'll do you one better there's this amazing Nigerian club I'm not sure if you dance or anything but let's go there tonight so he followed me halfway to my place I had to change clothes cause I wore a t-shirt and jeans and then we headed out to Houston to the club and we walked off to this what look like a hole in the wall in Houston off of Harwin once inside you can hear the music all throughout the club the bar was slightly over to the left and that was the first place that we headed was the bar after about a drink and half I scoped out the place a little bit and felt a little more comfortable getting up and dancing with him that dance lasted all night I literally dance for like 4-5 hours we stayed there until the club closed down he walked me to my car and I gave him a kiss and then we went on our separate ways he decided it'd be a good idea so neither one of us could fall asleep is to call me while we were driving back to our house and he lives in Galveston I'm in a small town Webster which is about 30 minutes away north of Galveston. He then stated since my exit was closer how it would be a good idea for him to come over and stay I stated stated no and he said okay and then continued on passing my exit and went home i ended up sleeping the whole day away on Sunday and that day he decided that he would also like for me to come out to his place I stayed at home I did not feel comfortable I feel like it was too early for us to visit each other's home so quickly and that since he did live in Galveston I'd be more than open to walking the beach with him. I actually have to work very late that evening he called and he still expected me to come to the beach at 10 o'clock at night I explained that was a little late we can try another day and then he proceeded to go on to a discussion about how it is very important in the early stages of the relationship to see each other as much as possible I did explain to him you know they're going to be times where I can't see you every single day and I'm hoping that you would be understanding to that but I am open to getting to know each other so we can talk on the phone we can get to know each other better that way he then stated that he's dated women before with children like myself and the reasons why those relationships do end it was a simple fact that he wasn't being paid any attention to and their first priority were always the children and I explained to him my children are going to be coming soon you won't be able to set last night at dates but I would like for you to keep in mind that they will always come first. Then he stated okay well when are they coming and I said well they'll be here this Friday and he said ok great will you can bring them so I can meet them and I said absolutely not then he didn't understand why I wouldn't introduce him to my children so soon and I explained to him I believe you've only dated one woman with children I'm not sure if she introduced you to them early but that's something that I definitely don't do especially with us just knowing each other for less than a week and the simple fact that we are not in a relationship and he's like well eventually we can work to being in a relationship and then shortly after marriage and that's when I was a little put off so I tried to back him up and explain to him I'm not trying to get married within the next 6 months I'm not even sure I'm looking to get married within the next year I honestly would like to take our time I'd like to get to know you and I'd like for us to take proper steps in that matter and it just was awkward it was just a very awkward phone conversation that I quickly and very awkwardly ended

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