Single in the city: life lessons

​As an adult I had three very tough life lessons that brought me to my mindset it is today. You have two choices with bad decision making you can either keep making the same mistake or you can learn from it,fix it, and never do it again . 3 Men as traumatic as my experiences where taught me very important things:

Never compromise/change who you are inside for someone else. Do not allow someone to hit or cheat on you it won't stop and could end with you getting something that will stick with you for life or your life could end all together. Do not allow any person to make you feel inferior to them and definitely do not dumb yourself down to make them feel better you are awesome and if they can't see your worth the hell with them . These were all at that time of my life loves of my life at different points of my life so I thought . Folks will ususally come into your life for a reason a season or a lifetime all three have served these purposes to a T honestly this is more of a thank you to them all and a I forgive you . They have all made me stronger than I could ever be and so much more determined