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Single in the city: the Frenchman

  • Writer: Kay Darden
    Kay Darden
  • Dec 10, 2015
  • 3 min read

So I met the Frenchman a couple of months ago online via OkCupid originally from Paris and got a great job working in the medical field had a home in Katy and 1 son . We chatted and he tried several times to set up dates but I've always had something going, on this weekend I had no dates and was going to go to watch a play with my best friend Heather in it and he asked me about it I invited him out to it sent the address and everything and told him the time . Well the play started he was late to it and showed up in the second act almost a hour into it and when the play ended we went out for drinks afterwards at a favorite bar down the street. When we sat down he said he was a lightweight and didn't drink often I asked him did he want to go somewhere else he said no and found a waiter for us to place our order . I ordered their margarita and he ordered a straight jack which I thought was a odd choice for a light weight . We listened to the band play for about 10 minutes until the time I am assuming his jack kicked in then he was trying to force me on the dance floor now anyone that knows me knows I'm a terrible dancer I can stay on beat and I can do a two step and that's as good as it gets lol. The only thing with him he was sending me off on the dance floor alone no biggie for me another great thing about this bar you always have a friendly lady dance partner lol so they taught me a line dance and I caught a couple of glimpses at him and he was in his phone nice right ? Lol so when I danced a couple of songs and sat back down he alerted me he was really tipsy and feeling good (good for you dude) and wanted to slow dance , one issue the sing wasn't a slow song I humored him and danced and it really hit me strong that I was not interested when the song ended we came back to the table and he wanted to order another round I declined since I honestly wasn't interested and didn't want him to invest anymore than he already has and I also nicely told him he had a long drive ahead and no sense in ordering another and he's going to get on the road . He decided we would end the night we went outside talked a bit more he asked to come over my place I just told him no and he leaned in to kiss me (why I didn't also tell him no beats me ) and the kiss was bad :( he tried to come in for another and he got my check which he sucked the living day lights out of I pulled away and made a way to open my car door. He reached for it to let me in and asked if I could stay the night with him that he would behave himself his house had 5 bedrooms and I could pick any one I wanted to sleep in I also declined that offer got in the car and he closed my door I rolled the window down since he looked like he wanted to say more he proceeds to beg me to drive the hour out to katy I declined again and explained he was an hour away it was midnight and it's going to rain all day tomorrow and I just hate driving in the rain he leans into the window and hugs me but doesn't let go when I pull away he tried to push my face to his for another awful kiss and I jerk ed back and rolled the window up . You know this man stayed in my damn window till it was almost trapping his body 😑 . I mean what the hell smh I just blocked him from everything so I don't ever have to deal with him again

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