Single in the city : I hate dating

​Gonna post some personal stuff and just leave it at that when I left florida I said to myself I'll wait one year before I become someone else's somebody and date and be alone it's now 6 months in and honestly I've met some characters on this crazy single road but I think the last situationship takes the cake this is the thing you can not scream that you do not want a relationship but you do relationship things for example ( having date nights, planning trips,asking to meet your family ,asking/ wanting to exchange Christmas presents) now correct me if I'm wrong these are things that people in relationships do. Now if I decide that I no longer want to do that why the heck am I wrong and considered bipolar? Look it's 2015 we are all too old to play mind games and there are way to many things to catch that you can't get rid of . At the end of the day I'm trying to protect my heart,mind,and lady bits from another diabolical dude better now than later just why all the anger geez .