Single in the City: Mr. Officer
- Kay Darden
- Sep 13, 2015
- 2 min read
**nicknames are provided to protect the datees** Mr officer was another gentleman I met on the dating site ok cupid we chatted daily for hours for about a week . He wanted to meet for coffee on our lunches midweek . He was pleasing to the eyes I've always had a thing for big guys with beards it's a weakness we chatted for about an hour and went on about our days . The coming weeks we had several dinner dates and then the other shoe dropped as it always does and the all came down like a ton of bricks
He was married and still clearly attached and in love with his wife since we talked.
He was living with his dad because child support for 3 children was killing him
He worked 3 jobs one of the jobs was under the table and he was working it so he didn't have to pay more child support
With those 3 major triggers I was just done honestly and of course he wanted one last dinner date to discuss me walking away
I went to dinner with him and he was late like well over an hour late
During the dinner he brought his unsigned divorce papers and signed them in front of me I'm assuming to give me piece of mind and stated he quit the other job because it bothered me that he was doing something sneaky. All of these are good right ? I honestly felt like there was something more he then wanted to move the relationship to the next level which I decided in that moment that I didn't want to I paid my part of dinner and asked him politely to take me home to never speak to him again .
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