Single in the city : control

I don't think there's several events or people or anyone in my life that I'm trying to control which I'm grateful for that. But there are situations that I am trying to control especially with the dating aspect I'm finding it very difficult for the past few weeks too make some guys understand you know that I not going to be readily available and I will be available whenever they want me to be and up until last night Mr International is getting a little frisky and I had to lay down the law and explain to him the whole concept of waiting getting to know one another and making sure that it's something good and not just going with the flow of something he made a point of stating that I was just trying to control the situation which I'm not sure that's in essence but honestly just wanted to do what's right. I do feel like with my mother she is trying to control the situation with the raising of my children and how they should interact with her and how that they should be around her it's honestly it is very very upsetting and annoying the way she's going about handling things I'm trying not to react to the drama and to the stupidity but there are days where it's been very difficult not to react to it whatsoever. I feel like that I should take a step back from my family for a few weeks maybe a few months to clear my mind from some of the things that they may put into my life also I'm not sure about some touching myself from mr. International quite yet but I am willing and open to see how the dating experience goes with him and to give him another chance not that he did anything wrong he was just being a guy I think but at the same time I don't know him well enough to being intimate with him in that aspect.