Single in the city :number 2

Fresh off of me filing for my divorce I moved out of the home my ex and I shared and got my own apartment with our two children about a little over a month of living there I met number 2 online we talked a total of 4 days he came over my house we had sex and a week later we were in a relationship and 3 weeks later he was living in my house. Smh pretty fast huh? I didn't know this boy (also 6 years younger than me just turned 21 lied about his age found this out later). This is why I'm an advocate now especially for the 90 day rule . Had I waited the 90 days I would have known he

Was a Bum,cheater,alcoholic and had a issue with keeping his hands to himself. Month two I found myself in my home with his hands tightly around my kneck . This roller coaster lasted 1 year off and on and during this time he cheated, hit me had me arrested (almost lost my job) tried to kill my ex husband,tried to run me off a dirt road ,kicked in my door, stole money from me and also not paying in the bills in the home. That's a lot huh? It gets better he cheated on me with escorts and gave me something that I was luckily able to get rid of . So again use the 90 day rule my judgement was definitely definitely clouded with the sex and he knew that and used it like a weapon. I'm not calling myself a victim by any means but more so a survivor of my bad choices . If you are dating someone and it's been less than 90 days and yall have already had sex stop! Stop right now take a step back and re evaluate yall thing yall have going on . If he's worth a damn he will understand you wanting to move slow if not good riddance.

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