Single in the city: The business man with dreds

I'm avoiding him sorta. I was very clear and honest in the whole aspect of us just being friends I'm not friend zoning a great guy before you ask he placed himself there. When you spent some time alone to really think about all your past mistakes you get a good idea on how you would like to get treated as well as what you want . With all this time I know I would like a guy that I don't have to take care of I was in a relationship with someone that paid no bills and I took care of everything ( yea I know) . I also was with someone that didn't need to work but also had no career and felt less of a man without it ( so now I realized I'd like someone already established in their career) . With that being said Mr. Business was a in between of both had money to support himself and was starting his own business not where he wants to be but a great mind on where he wants it . We had business talk over some coffee and that ran into more talk about life and views over some very tasty margaritas when it got to the point of us discussing what he was looking for he just couldn't tell me . Which hey it happens I just don't want to be involved with it . No one knows when you meet someone if they are the one or not but everyone should know initially what their intentions are if you have no clue , I just don't have the time as well and we can remain friends especially if you are great person of course he didn't like this idea and quickly changed his answer .